Grandma was a quilter and lived in near-poverty conditions in rural Louisiana. Yet, she had a quality of life that most folks today do not understand. She was happy, knowing all her needs were fulfilled. She laughed out loud and sang a lot.
I watched Grandma gather her scraps and sew them together all summer on her Singer treadle machine humming a tune as she treadled along. In the fall, she would order yards of flannel from the Sear's catalog and when it arrived, would make backs for her accumulation of quilt tops. The quilting now began. If the quilt top was made with wool or denim or corduroy (as it usually was), then she would tie the quilt, then bind it. I grew up aspiring to be a quilter just like Grandma. A grandmother filled with pride at being able to provide warmth for her family for the upcoming winter months.
Yesterday, while with quilters who sit and sew together, I silently formed a few potty mouth words.
Linda (last name omitted to protect the condescending) marched in proclaiming how ugly the quilts of Gee's Bend are. And Dorothy seconded the motion. I saw fire! How dare seasoned quilters mock or condescend the quilts of others.
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When Linda repeated how ugly those quilts are, I could no longer sit quietly. You see, in my head, she was declaring that my quilts and the quilts my grandmother made, to be ugly. My style is (by choice) improvisational as to design and improvisational as to use of fabric. Grandma didn't have much choice in her style....it was determined by the size feed sacks and remnants she had on hand.
Dorothy kept quiet on the subject, but Linda just couldn't stop. She declared that to mix fabric or to cut up old blue jeans and other clothing for fabric was just plain ugly. By this time, I was near tears since she was describing my quilts to a T.
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I reminded Linda that since we are in the same quilt guild, we were bound to adhere to The Guild's purpose, copied directly from the North Louisiana Quilt Guild bylaws:
" ARTICLE II - PURPOSE AND POWERS
Section 1 - Purpose:
The purpose of this organization shall be to promote good fellowship among persons interested
in the art of quilting; to preserve its tradition, culture and history; to further promote the knowledge and understanding of all aspects of quilting; and to enjoy and appreciate the work of others."
I'm no longer in tears, but am incensed at Linda's insensitivity. Perhaps if she educated herself about these quilt makers.....that even though impoverished and cut off from mainstream America, the quilters of Gee's Bend were able to keep joy and hope and faith and warmth in their lives through their quilt making. As blemished as the quilts were with old blue jeans and polyester, cut with scissors, laid out on a bed or floor as the design wall, pieced by hand, layered with worn out quilts or unusable fabric pieces, quilted or tied with thread on hand, they were a work to be cherished.
I had the wonderful opportunity to visit some of the quilters of Gee's Bend last year when a group of 30 of us traveled through Louisiana, Mississippi and into Alabama to Boykin, Alabama, to The Bend in the river. We, of course traveled the road.....not having to ferry over to the island.
We were greeted with warmth and left with a spiritual melody still resounding in our ears.
Linda, here is one link to their story of how the government tried to stop the civil rights movement, how the community was further isolated when funds were cut, eliminating the ferry across the river, thus eliminating their privilege of voting or getting back and forth to work. They shopped in nothing more than the property owner's country store. Yet, while doing without the freedom or money to motor out to the local quilt shop or JoAnn's or Hobby Lobby for pure cotton quilter's cotton, they found a way to enjoy an aspect of quilting with the commodity on hand: SCRAPS. Our scraps, Linda.
I ask you....if you didn't have a rotary cutter, 24" acrylic ruler, cutting mat, electric iron or computerized sewing machine....if you didn't have quilter's cotton batting or yard after yard of lush designer cotton fabric, would you be the quilter you are today? Would you have the fortitude to enjoy the art of quilting just using left-overs and hand-me-downs? Or would you be more apt to languish in your self-pity. The quilters of Gee's Bend take great pride in their work and workmanship. While the style might not please you, it is a style much admired by others and has a quality worth preserving.
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Linda, if you had only said that the improvisational style quilt is not a style you enjoy making, or that you did not understand the artistic style, I could have and would have appreciated your point of view. But you took it a step too far when you referred to the ugliness of the Quilts of Gee's Bend.
I left the group yesterday.....I came home and I cried. I cried not because I am ashamed of my quilts, but because of the bigoted attitude and lack of understanding of the art form that surrounds some quilt makers in my quilting community.
Peace be with you
Marty
Have you talked to her face to face about this? I wonder how she would feel once you explained it all so beautifully. I don't think I have ever seen an ugly quilt. They all hold their own beauty. Even if the quilt is not my style, I hope I would never say a quilt was ugly. Sorry she made you cry.
ReplyDeleteYes, Barbara. And the conversation went something like this....."those quilts are ugly and nothing you will say will change my mind." Since all in the room are members of our local guild, I encouraged her to remember that one purpose of our guild is to appreciate the work of others. To which she responded, "I'm not going to get into this with you. Those quilts are ugly." Obviously Linda will remain steadfast and will continue to be a person in whose company I do not enjoy. I'm sure the feeling is mutual at this point.
DeleteI think it's fine to be upset by her tone and delivery but don't be upset by her opinion. Everyone has an opinion and that is based on their personal history. You love the Gees Bend quilts and that's influenced by your personal history and that's good. She doesn't have to love or appreciate the same things you do and you don't have to appreciate the things she does.... and I expect that you don't. I personally appreciate the GB quilts because of the history of the makers. As art, they don't move me at all. There are a lot of quilts that I appreciate because of the workmanship or story but I still don't like the quilts aesthetically. That's perfectly fine. A lot of people aren't moved by my quilts either. Linda is rude. Be mad about that but don't let her opinion bother you.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right, Vicki. I do agree that personal styles vary....mine even from week-to-week. I do appreciate that Linda's style is not improvisational or spontaneous. It was the rudeness of her delivery to the group of quilters that was distasteful.
ReplyDeleteMarty, you just need to write her off. She is missing the point of what quilting is all about, to provide families with cover. improvisation is the root of where all quilting began! Precision cutting was the oddity, the norm was scraps of leftover clothing and dungarees.
ReplyDeleteI love this style, our style. And I proudly own pieces of your work.
glen
Thanks Glen for your advise....write her off indeed. I swept her and her bigoted comments under the table last night... Speaking of our Louisiana Travel Quilt....I need to get involved in more round robins. I see that you and Mary are in a group.
DeleteI have encountered this same comment from a good friend regarding an improvisational quilt made by a group. I told her that she could have said it was interesting, colorful or obviously a lot of work went into it....but not ugly. She has since become less offensive in her comments. I
ReplyDeleteI once took a film critique class and well remember something the teacher said. Not all films are everyone's type but there is always something a person can critique positively, such as, camera work, lighting, music, scenery, etc. So instead of saying something derogatory about any work of art, one should always look for something of merit to comment about.
I agree with Vicki that it was probably her tone and delivery and choice of words that were most offensive and because our quilts are an extension of ourselves it is hurtful to hear harsh comments. Although I know this was upsetting, you will probably never change Linda and her opinions. Maybe a newsletter article or program that offers more appropriate ways to critique fellow members quilts would be valuable. Otherwise, I think you should move on knowing your quilts are unique and your style is worthy of consideration by all of us!
Thanks Torch for sharing your thoughts on how or how not to critique works of art. Yes, what an interesting program this topic would make....I will suggest to our program committee: Perhaps "Quilt Guild and its Members Ethics."
DeleteYou are right also in that I can only change myself, not others. I will; however, continue to educate Linda and others re courtesy that should be shown according to Guild Bylaws. Hopefully, with awareness that our words sting, the bite will become less irritating.
Moving on: I've started hand-quilting one this morning, using the big stitch concept with perle cotton that I was exposed to in Savannah, QuiltConEast 2017. This quilt should get a few positive comments, should it hang in our next quilt show.